Wanita Hanya Mahu...

Haha! Kesan dah lama tak update blog, aku tibatiba come back dengan banyak idea. This might sound typical, tapi biarlah kali ini guna bahase Melayu pule. Kang ingat aku kopipes lak. Walopun ni sume adelah fresh dari minda bawah sedar aku.

Wanita. Aku wanita. Mama kite sume Wanita. Isteri, awek, kekasih korang sume Wanita. Tatahu pule jike anda adelah songsang.
Sejauh mana anda bersedia menerima spesies yang lain segala sifatnya dengan anda?
Kami kurangtenaga(?), sopansantun, penyayang atau ape jua lagilah ketipikalan yang korang sukesuke labelkan pada kami.

Lelaki, kalau dah berani sangat nak berkate sayang kepada wanita, sila ambil perhatian.
Kami tahu lelaki memang spesies kurang bagi perhatian (lelaki tipikalnye lah), tetapi itu jugalah yang kami perlukan dari korang.
Susah sangat ke nak bagi perhatian?

Korang sayang nasi yang korang masak (pandai ke?) sebab nanti korang nak makan. Maka korang bagi perhatian supaya nasi tak hangit.

Samalah bila bercinta pon. ( Ni pun nak kena ajar ke? )

Korang yang kacak ni kate sayang kat gelpren sebab nanti korang nak jadikan sebagai isteri. Maka korang berikan perhatian supaya cinta hati juga sayang pada korang.

Simple. Susah lagi ke nak terima fakta ni?
Perhatian. Itu je. Wanita tak perlukan sangat korang kaya ke, kacak ke,.. Tu semua adalah alat sematamata. Yang penting korang pandai jaga. Beri perhatian. Tak rugi apapun kalau korang manjakan cinta hati sesekali. Aii, kata sayang. Takkan berkira kot. Luangkan sedikit masa dalam sehari untuk dia. Seminit bermesejan pun jadilah, sekadar ucapkan rindu dan sayang.
Ni tak. Dah la tak romentik, ada hati nak skandal dengan ramai pompuan.

Damn, sungguh tipikal kaatakata aku skarang akibat serabut dengan lelakilelaki yang menggelikan hati ni.

Oi Lelaki. Sudahsudahlah terlalu obses dengan ego. Kamu memang akan kelihatan tampan andai sekalisekala bersifat kool. Tapi ego bukan kool. Sebab kami akan merasakan anda adalah kurang tampan.

Wanita itu tipikalnya lembut. Apa salahnya kamu melayannya secara lembut. Membelai, bukan mengabai. Memanjakan, bukan membiarkan. Lamalama cairlah wanita, dan bersedia mengikut arah yang kamu nak bawa. Hargailah wanita yang sedia menerima kamu seadanya.

 

Flammable Reality about Guys : Judgemental.

My mind is full with question marks, in every time i think about guys and their behaviors.

I don't know if it's typical for guys.

You love women to follow what you have told them to do. but when it comes to women doing what you are doing, you simply hate it. What an ego devils all of you.

You're testing if a woman is right for you by making her heart sick. But when that woman did it back to you, you decide that she is a bitch wrong person to have your perfect love. WTF.

You, GUYS, always think about the right woman for your life. I'm okay with that. Because women like me did the same too. Yup, we always wanted the best for a man to be our life partner.
Must be smart, funny, good-looking, rich enough money to support life, and honest, blablabla.

Everybody is a good person. They are just looking bad when you judge them bad. You dumped her when she is not good enough for you. You dumped her when she is not what you have in mind.
Women are not CYBORGS that you can install whatever software you want.

If at first place, you have dared to say I LOVE YOU to her, then dare yourself to accept the way she is. She is not born to just satisfy your needs. She is born the way she can live with. If the girl you love is a jealous person, that is because she has to protect what she loves most. 

Like I've said before, they are just looking BAD when you decide that on your own.

Men, you should be the savior. What's wrong with that? It's fit your ego, right?
So, why don't you use your EGO to protect your beloved woman.
I'm promise, you won't look so bad. Besides, a guy who appreciates his girl is the guy a girl most wanted to be with. I am personally think that too.

*Please, i am not a feminist. It's my alter ego to stand on my principles sometimes. I don't judge GUYS. I only show you what a girl like me would feel when we are categorized into Person should be Loved and Person should be Leaved.

Don't be so orthodox when it comes about loving a person. You are not deciding to share your life with a computer here.

Flammable Reality about Guys.

i rarely updating my blog here, just because i dont really have every-day-view on what i see in my life here as a student. i dont wanna sound too typical, complaining, like others did.

and now here i am again. Huuu.. getting sick to think about this. that's why i am typing this out.
P/S : This entry is especially goes to those who are Lelaki Melayu Terakhir...

only girls/woman should do all the kitchen stuff. cooking, cleaning, tidying up, and whatever hells guys always have in their minds.

hello! women are not meant to be a kitchen cyborg or cleaning android.
and whassup with all the house chores?
why keep bullshitting our minds with all these categorizing?

Cooking. Cleaning. Tidying. Aren't those living skills? Everybody should know that.
Let's give you some situations.

Your mum is sick, and you, a boy, are the only child. I'm sure you don't wait for your age is enough to get married, which is in 20 years to go, so that your wife can cook a bowl of soup for your mum and help tidying up your house, right? Somehow you must learn to cook so that you can serve your sick mum. 

Same goes for a situation when you have to take care of your children when your wife has to be warded after giving birth to your sixth son. Wait a minute, are you gonna ask your mother to stay in your house for that? What a loser.

Come on, guys. It is not an excuse for you to not help doing house chores if you are born as an XY. Male. living skills are for everybody. that's why you called it living. It's for you to live properly. You don't skip a skill and leave it to only girls should know and master.

So stop categorizing! Get up on your feet and start helping out in the kitchen. Learn to cook. It's not that hard. Feel free to wet your hands on washing dirty plates and glasses. Learn to give and take.
What's wrong with helping each other. Aren't we suppose to have equal living skills?